God's love!

Zephaniah 3:17

The Lord your God is with you,
He is a mighty warrior, strong, there to save you.
He takes great delight in you,
He will quiet you, calm you, with His love,
He rejoices over you with singing.

The Lord your God is totally & completely in love with you

Wednesday, June 1, 2016

4 EVER LOVED



How much does He love me? Oh let me count the ways!
He loved me every day, with each step he took, knowing his destiny.
He loved me when his stress was so intense that he sweated drops of blood.
He loved me when he cried out "Take this cup from me. Not my will, but thine".
He loved me when he was wrongly accused, betrayed and beaten!
He loved me when he carried his cross.
He loved me with every lash, every nail pounded into his bone, and when the sword was thrust into his side!
He loved me as each thorn was pressed into His Holy head!
He loved me when he closed his eyes in death and when he gloriously arose!
He loved me then and he loves me now!
His love is wide and deep and reaches beyond all my sins.
His love is longer and higher than infinity.
Life and death cannot stop his love, neither angels nor demons interfere.
Nothing in my past, in my present, nor in my future will stop his love!
There is no power greater than his love.
There is no height nor depth that his love cannot reach.
Nothing but nothing in all creation, not my failures, not my doubts, not my rebellion, not my self loathing, not my "not good enoughs"-Nothing but nothing can separate me from his love!
His love, that surpasses all knowledge, fills me to the measure of all the fullness of God!
I am 4EVER LOVED!

This is why I am #boldinthesoul #revelationwellness

Free in Jesus and 4ever loved,
Stephanie Goode

Sunday, February 8, 2015

The Wildflowers Words:                                                   ...

The Wildflowers Words:                                                   ...:                                                            Compassion 2014 New Years 2014...my word for the year was COMPASSION!  Now, thi...
                                                           Compassion 2014

New Years 2014...my word for the year was COMPASSION!  Now, this is not a word I took lightly.  I seriously focused on this word all year and so did God!  I know God gave me this word because I had much to learn in order to do his will.  One thing I'm sure of is that God has a plan for my life and yours too!  Every New Year we make plans and goals and resolutions that we usually don't stick with but God has a plan and he never derails! His plan is to prosper me. Prosper means to thrive! Succeed! Flourish! Bloom! (I like that!) To flower! (Yes!) To bring me good!  All the days of my life I can live fully and completely in Him!  He promised! He never breaks a promise!  He also promised to never bring me harm.  Sin brings me harm.  He promised to give me HOPE and a FUTURE!  Hope-to have confidence in, to desire and consider it possible, a source or reason for such a longing or desire (JESUS).  I just love this! It makes me so excited! I have learned that NOTHING is impossible with God and that ALL things are possible with God!  His word is true!  What does this have to do with COMPASSION? EVERYTHING!!! The problem is that if I told you everything that God's done for me and taught me in this last year I'd have to write a book!  So, in my longwinded way I'm going to try to give you a glimpse of compassion.  I've always believed that I was a compassionate person, and I am, but not compassionate enough, obviously, and not compassionate like Jesus!  A tender, loving heart no doubt.  But...lets travel back a bit.
A week or two ago I was feeling somewhat misunderstood.  I was walking through my room when my eye caught a picture on my husbands night stand.  My picture! I was compelled to stop and look at her.  I was immediately filled with compassion!  Now, understand, this is a new feeling I'm having towards her.  She's not usually my favorite nor is she usually a recipient of my compassion! I mean, I like her ok, but I'm not so sure I actually love her!  At least not most of the time.  Like a flash of lightening God took me back in time!  You know, like in the movies when everything fades into a bright light and you began seeing your life!  Ok, it wasn't really that dramatic, but you get the picture!  So many moments and memories! My eyes filled with tears and at that moment I understood her, I felt love for her, I felt COMPASSION for her!  I attained in  that moment the full realm of God's love, how he feels about me and you, and I understood why and how he could have such compassion for us! I understood that the reason I could feel such compassion was because I KNOW HER! I UNDERSTAND HER!  See, I know everything she's ever said, done, or had done to her.  I know where's she's been!  I know every tear she's cried and every smile she's faked!  I know how incredibly strong she is and yet how very weak and vulnerable she can be!  I know how terribly funny and crazy she is and I also know her deep struggles with depression and suicide!  I know her sins!!!  I know her tender, repentant heart!  I know how deep her sorrows run and how hard she's fought! I've seen her broken heart!  I know she's often misunderstood!  I've seen her so full of life and I've seen her drained of life!  I've seen the devil in her and I know her mean side!  I see Jesus shining in her and I see how much she truly loves Him!  I know why she is the way she is!  I UNDERSTAND HER!  I KNOW HER!
Then it hit me! Like an ocean wave crashing onto the shore!  This is how God see's us!  THIS!  This is where his compassions come from!  This is why his compassions are new every morning!  HE UNDERSTANDS US!  HE KNOWS US!  He knows every hair on our head! Every tear he's held in his hand!  Every sorrow he's bound up in his love!  Every sin he's covered with his own blood!  Every sheep gone astray, he finds! He rights every wrong and every right he blesses!  Every broken heart he renews!  Every rusted vessel he restores!  NOTHING, NOTHING, NOTHING we will ever do or say or feel or think will ever get past him!  NOTHING will ever separate us from his love! He takes every piece of our life and puts them perfectly into the pages of our story that makes us uniquely who we are! He rejoices over us! He sings over us! He never blinks, never closes his eyes!  He doesn't want to miss a thing because he loves us!
HE KNOWS ME!  Yet he still loves me and has great compassion for me!  His compassions they fail not!  Great is thy faithfulness, Lord unto me!  Shew! I'm out of breath!
As I've looked back at my pictures from childhood till now, I've felt every emotion!  There were times I felt sorry for her, times I didn't understand, times I just wanted to hold her, and yet times I wanted to punish her!  Times I've even beat her up!  I've judged her, criticized her!  Mostly, I've hated on her for a long time!  I always wondered how I was supposed to do as scripture says and love my neighbor as myself. Geez, there wouldn't be much compassion there!  God wants us to love who we are because he created us in his image! We are perfect in his eyes! I've never been able to give myself love, grace and compassion until now.  God has opened my eyes to a whole new level of compassion for others as well.  To make a long story short...(laugh, snort), I'm a work in progress! Now I see my picture and I see a beautiful girl.  Still a child, still growing!  CHANGED! KNOWN! LOVED!  A girl in a woman's body with a desire for her God, a love for her Jesus, and constant need for the Holy Spirit!  She has a longing to know him more and a desire to serve with compassion!

A trek through 2014 leads to a wondrous continuation into 2015!

Go forth and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.  And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age. Matthew 28:19-20

It all starts with you!
My words for 2015-Doer, giver, Faith!

Sing it with me: Stevie Wonder Isn't she lovely remix-Isn't she/he lovely! Isn't she/he wonderful! Isn't she/he precious! Isn't she/he lovely, made from love!  Lovely, truly the angels best, heaven blessed! I can't believe what God has done, through Jesus he's given life to all!

Saturday, September 27, 2014

Be thankful! Contentment pt 1

Have you ever found yourself asking, "how can I give thanks in...this illness, this trial, this death, this...in all things"? I have! You find yourself saying or most likely thinking "I'm not thankful because...this hurts, it's hard, it's not fair, doesn't make sense, it's not my fault".  God never said it would always be easy, fair or make sense. He did say not to give up, not to fear, but to take heart for he has overcome the world. Sounds like this should be easy but the truth is I, personally, have trouble with this sometimes!  Looking into myself I can say that at times I've refused to be thankful because of fear, pride, anger, hurt and confusion.  I have learned though that being thankful is an attitude! Well, attitude is something I'm good at it just needed a little tweaking! We are called to be renewed in the attitude of our minds and that our attitudes should be same as that of Christ Jesus.  Philippians 2: 6-8 gives an example of this.  Here are a few key words from those verses that can shape our thankfulness-not equal with God, servant, human, man, humble, and obedient. Here's why we can feel safe in being thankful; because we know  that in 1 Corinthians 15:57 it says But thanks be to God! (Why?) He gives us the VICTORY through our Lord Jesus Christ. Thank you Jesus!
I love what 1John 5:3-5 says-This is love for God: to obey his commands. And his commands are not burdensome, for everyone born of God OVERCOMES the world. This is the VICTORY that has OVERCOME the world, EVEN our FAITH. Who is it that OVERCOMES the world? Only he who believes (me & you) that Jesus is the son of God. We have something the world doesn't have: the ability and the means to be thankful, victorious over-comers In The Lord! Psalm 60:12 says With God we will GAIN the VICTORY! We know with all assurance that He sings over us and leads in a triumphal, victory parade in Christ and thanks be to God, through us spreads everywhere the fragrance of the knowledge of him.  2 Corinthians 2:14. And it is with great confidence that we can offer an attitude of thanks because we know that even though we are hard-pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not ashamed; struck down, but not destroyed! Yes, thank you Jesus that because as the psalmist said "I believed; therefore I have spoken.  With that same spirit of FAITH I also believe and therefore speak, because I know that the one who raised The Lord Jesus from the dead will also raise us with Jesus and present us with you in his presence.  All this is for your benefit, (why?) so that the GRACE  that is reaching more and more people may cause (what?) THANKSGIVING to overflow to the glory of God." 2 Corinthians 4:8, 13-18. I love that! 
Thanks-an expression of gratitude, an acknowledgement of services or favours given!
Be thankful in ALL things, even the small things! Like the paperclip you needed or the penny found! Look for the positive!  An ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE! GET YOURS ON! 

Thank you Jesus that we have a hope and confidence IN YOU! I have an attitude and I'm not sorry for it!

Christians what your battle cry? Come on, shout it out! Let me hear it the comments! 

The Lord Bless you and Keep you!

SG © 7/1/2014
To judge or not to judge? That is the question!

We are all going to be judged one day by God, the one and only true judge who knows each of our hearts and the motive behind our deeds, good or bad. Romans 2:5-11, Ecclesiastes 12:14, Matthew 12:36, 1 Corinthians 4:5.
We all judge or have judged. I pray for his mercy! Is it righteous or does it show favoritism? James 2:1-3 Have we heard the whole story? Proverbs 18:13
We are all going to be judged by someone at some point and time. Like it or not. Is the judgement merciful or with the same measure you want to be judged with? James 2:13, Romans 2:1-4, Matthew 7:2 Have you first judged yourself and removed your own plank? Matthew 7:3-5
The Bible gives scripture that both supports judging and when not to judge and standards to judge by! Romans 2:1-3, Romans 14, James 4:11-12, John 7:24 and so many more!

I guess my question is this...which scriptures or parts of scriptures do we believe? Most assuredly the one that say don't judge! But do we understand why it says don't? I hear and see all the time,"judge not lest you be judged" (out of context), don't be judging, stop judging, look in the mirror, check yourself first, who are you to judge, y'all need to just love!  Do you know what love is? Just asking! But what about scripture that says to judge or as we like to hear it said, discern, because that sounds less threatening? There definitions are very much the same; judging or discerning good or evil.  Do we believe those as well? Do we practice it? Not too much really! The world has told us to stop, therefore, we have. The world, satan, would have us to not judge because it creates confusion, deception, tolerance, and essentially a comfortable place to sin.   God's been turned into an "it's all good" kinda God! Not so! He is a jealous God and commands obedience!  And, he is not a God of confusion, but of peace.  It's a vicious cycle, but the cycle can be broken if we choose to believe all the scriptures! Be careful to read all the scripture not just 1 verse as you may be missing out on important instructions. Practice righteousness and humility and turn from self-righteousness and arrogance.

So where does this leave us in a world full of human judgement? Here's my thoughts:
You can agree or disagree, either way is fine! It's my thought pattern that helps to keep me humble in his word and growing, not without fault.
If I am being judged then I must ask myself a few questions.
Is it referring to my past? If so, have I overcome it, repented of it, been forgiven? If so, then I can say thanks for the reminder of just how wonderful God's grace and forgiveness is! I can rejoice in praise for it is with his strength I have overcome! I do not labor in the past but strain forward to the goal, the reward, the prize.  If I have not overcome it or am still living in it then again I can choose to be thankful.  I can choose to say thank you for bringing that to my attention.  I do need forgiveness, I do need his strength so that I can become more like Jesus! Hallelujah because in this satan and sin in my life can be defeated!
Is it about my present state? Is it true? If so, again, thank you Lord for sending this messenger of truth to open my eyes to this part of me that still needs healing, or this sin that I need to turn from and repent of, this habit that keeps others from seeing you in me, or whatever the case may be. Ex. 2 Samuel 12:13-14 David suffered the consequence of his sin even tho he repented when his sin was brought before him by Nathan. His sin caused the enemies of The Lord to show utter contempt toward God.  We too suffer the consequences but I am thankful to have the error of my way corrected.  See Psalm 32 & 51.  If, however, the judgement is not true then I have full confidence in God and I can pray for wisdom and understanding. I know that these kinds of words come from possibly jealousy, or a bitter heart, and satan using otherwise good people as his tool of disparity and discouragement.  Once again I am faced with a choice.  I hope that I remember to smile and give thanks for my God, my redeemer, my deliverer who has set me free!  I can rejoice in prayer, lifting the messenger up with words of encouragement before my God who loves me!
If it is a vicious judgement about my future I must consider if this judgement is based upon human opinion or the scripture.  If it is scriptural, I consider it, believe it and give it to Jesus, the King of Kings knowing full well that he has a plan and only he knows the outcome.  I have been the given the knowledge and understanding that his ways are to prosper me, to give me hope and a future and never to harm me!  If, on the other hand, it is merely human opinion then it is what it is and I will choose to speak truth into their ears about God's promises! Jeremiah 29:11 The Lord is not slow in keeping his promises 2 Peter 3:9, and in 2 Peter 1:3-21 His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises so that through them you may participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. Continue to read for yourselves.  See 1 Timothy 4

See being judged doesn't have to be a bad thing! Being judged can bring us growth and maturity in Christ and sometimes may actually save a brother from the error of his way and save him from death, James 5:19. We have no need however to pick each other apart because when we do we set ourselves for the same judgement and we put ourselves above the law that commands to love God and our neighbors; therefore giving us justification by a set of standards that are not God's, James 4. Check your judgement against God's word.  Is it good or evil? Love what is good and hate what is evil! Consider Colossians 2:16.  I have considered and understand that I have been guilty of judging without realizing I was judging, but in this I ask God's guidance, revelation and forgiveness.  It's so easy to judge and not even mean to be or realizing that you are. However, christians without judgement how will we follow the command to restore those who have fallen away? Galatians 6:1,2  Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other's burdens and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. Judging the world is not ours to do. But of Christians?  Yes! In 1 Corinthians 5:9-13 we are told who not to associate with and Paul wasn't talking about the world otherwise we would have to leave the world.  He says anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral, greedy, an idolator, slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler.  With such do not even eat! Imagine that! In case you think these are just works from a man read 1 Corinthians 14:37. I could go on but I will stop here for now.  Jesus says those that reject his words will be judged by his words.
I, personally, feel judged when something within me is being called out(sin,shame, guilt, pride,etc)  and I don't want to confront it. So let your judgement be sound and not with hypocrisy, by appearance or condemnation or for justification, but with love and gentleness and righteousness as one who speaks the words of God, 1 Peter 4:8-11..above all love each other deeply.  Its time for judgement and it begins right here with us who are christians. 1 Peter 4:17-19.  Choose wisely!
I will leave you with this from Hebrews 4:12-13 For the word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart. Nothing in all creation is hidden from God's sight.  Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of him to whom we must give account.

From the heart,
Stephanie G. © 9/27/14

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

The Ministry of Marriage

"Marriage may be the toughest ministry you ever undertake".  Do you know why simple steps and praying harder won't overcome your marital issues?  They only work on a superficial level.  
To spiritually benefit from marriage, we have to be honest.  We have to look at our disappointments, own up to our ugly attitudes and confront our selfishness.  We have to work hard sometimes. The Bible gives us many scriptures on how to live and how to treat others.  Did you know that those same scriptures that we apply to others also applies to our spouses?  They are your significant OTHER! They are not just your spouse, but God's creation. 1Peter 2:17 Show proper respect to EVERYONE! Even your spouse.  Go read 1Peter 3-apply this whole chapter to your marriage. What about Colossians 3:9-25? Check it out! Or how about Ephesians 4:29 Do not let any unwholesome(injurious to physical, mental, or moral health; unhealthy) talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building OTHERS up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Vs 31-32 Get rid of all bitterness, rage, & anger, brawling & slander along with every form of malice.  Be kind & compassionate to one another, forgiving each OTHER, just as in Christ God forgave you. Add to these Galatians 5:22 & 1 Corinthians 13-that's what love really is.  Did you know that in 1 Thessalonians 5:12-13 it says to respect those who work hard among you.  I wonder if we can also apply this concept to our marriages.  Our attitude in marriage should reflect the attitudes listed in Matthew 5:1-11, the Be-attitudes. There are plenty of Don't Be-attitudes too! Check out Philippians 2:3-11. Never consider yourself better than OTHERS! Not even your spouse! Yea it happens! How many times have you raged about how stupid they are? Really? Why? Because you're so much smarter? Been there! Do nothing out of selfish ambition & conceit! What if we applied Proverbs 18:2 A fool finds no pleasure in understanding but delights in airing his or her own opinions.  Surely we don't do this!  2 Corinthians 1:3-4 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we may comfort those (OTHERS), in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. Is your marriage in trouble? Divorce is not the answer, it's the easy way out! God created you to be holy and if you've chosen to be married, there's no better way to improve yourself. 1 Corinthians 7:27a Are you married? Do not seek divorce. Before you give up and walk away pray asking, "O Lord,  search me and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See O Lord if there is ANY offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting. Create in me a new heart and renew a steadfast spirit within me!" In Jesus name!

Don't give up on this ministry called marriage!

Faithfully learning to be holy!
Stephanie Goode

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

An article I wrote for thymemagazine.com

                                 What it means to know God as my Father!

What does it mean to KNOW God as my Father?  As it has been said and sung, "to KNOW Him is to LOVE Him"!  How do we get to know Him?  We must first experience Him!

O Father!  My life is a mess!  My marriage, a shamble!  My life unbalanced, my heart, shut off!  My heart like broken glass is full of sharp, painful shard!  What do I do God?  It's so still, so quite.  I can't hear you!  Aren't you listening?  I need you!  I stumble forward, slowly drifting.  Angry!  Father, are you not speaking?  "I am, but you're not obeying!"  Fine!  then leave me alone!  Just give me what I want!  Sadness...my Father's heart is broken, torn.  He loosens the reigns, he knows he can't force his will, can't make my choices.  My Father watches in agony with eyes of love and compassion as I create an even bigger mess.  He knows he will have to clean up my mess, but he never complains, he just keeps gently calling, calling my name.  He keeps instructing, "that's far enough, turn around."  I glare at him with disdain and toss my head with a haughty laugh!  How I must have hurt him, but he continues on with me, fighting demons I know nothing about!  Anticipating my return.  He knows it will be hard though, for I have so much pride, such a stiff-neck!  My Father though, he never stops getting in the way!  Providing a way, a way back home!  He laid the paths before me.  Oh, but I was the smart one! After all, I'd watched all kinds of movies like CSI!  Ha, I was good at hiding, running, escaping the flame!  I won't get caught!  At least that's what I thought!

The time had finally come, my Father had had enough!  Again, he put a roadblock before me, a sign saying, "daughter, come home!"  With arrogance, a dead heart and a wild spirit I relented.  I was not repentant, no not yet, but oh my Father, how he rejoiced in just that one step!  He's not worried for he has great faith in me!  He know's my heart and he knows how to fix it!  Isn't that truly what every daughter wants?  Oh, daddy, please just fix it!  Time slowly continues on...

My God, my Father, always by my side, always with a plan.

Rebellious, black sheep gone astray; testing you, pushing the limit.
Do you still love me?  If you do then you would...but you said, "because I love you, I won't!"...  My soul so weary, worn out!  My heart broken into a million teeny, tiny, beautiful, stained glass pieces.  Rejection, abandonment, used, scarred and tainted, all blanketed with my sin!  Unconditional love, forgiveness, and acceptance, offered and rejected.  Your Father heart heard my desperate, confused cry; you wept for me, with me, as a Father does.  My God, My Father, I'm knocking on deaths door!  I want it, I need it!  If you loved me you would..."Because I love you, I won't!"...  To my every plea for death, you answered, "My grace is sufficient for YOU!"  I can see your big hand reaching down for me into the ravishing pits of sorrow, but I cannot reach it, not even the tip of your finger!  You answered me, " just be still, I'll stretch further!  I won't let you fall!"  I love you Father, but can you still love me?  I'm afraid! Send me a way out, a different way, my way!  "I want to"  you reply, "but not that way, I know what's best!  You must trust me!  Haven't I proven myself yet?  I will do it again because I love you, I forgive you!  I will carry you, I will get you through this mess!  You will sing again, you will dance, you will twirl, you will run, you will be successful in my purpose because I love you!  I love you with my very life!"  Trust? No!  God you know that was stolen from me long ago!  I can't!  If you loved me you would..."Because I love you, I won't!...Take my hand, I'll lead you home!  Come to me!  Let me comfort you!  I feel your pain!  You have nothing to fear, I am here and I will never leave you!  The road will be hard!"  My Father, he's so honest!  "You will turn back to me many times and many times I will forgive you."

His grace reaches me!  My Father, God, has never broken a promise!  My plans are not His plans nor are my thoughts greater than His!  "To know, know, know you, is to love, love, love you...and I do, yes I do!"

Stephanie Goode © May 20 2014